Papa ki daal

As promised, I’m going to write odes to food items that I love for #BlogchatterFoodFest and today’s ode is dedicated to arhar ki daal. For those uninitiated into daal lore, this is also called as toor daal or lentil soup, if you will. I have no idea why daals are called soup because the only thing they have in common is that they’re liquid. Soup is a starter and daals are the main course.

Anywho, as you can see, I have definite feelings about my daals. I was telling my mother only yesterday (she was quite flattered after reading the ode to nariyal ki barfi), she makes the best daal. People put too much garlic or the ubiquitous gravy made of tomatoes, onions, garlic and ginger and it stops tasting like daal and tastes like any other generic curry instead. The daal in my house is made in ghee, hing, jeera tadka and that’s how daal was intended to be made, even if I sound biased.

Now that that’s out of the way, let me tell you more about this daal in the form of a poem:


People may call you
Yellow lentil soup
But for me, and my desi heart
You will always be arhar ki daal
Or as my sister likes to call it
Papa ki daal – not because we have
A maa ki daal
But more because it is papa
Who likes this daal best.

Perhaps one of the easiest
Daals to make, I love you
With a ghee, hing and jeere ka tadka
Because that’s how I have always had you
Since I could tell mum
Yum, aur chahiye.

Soul food for this desi
I look forward to savouring you
Once a week during lunchtime
And unlike the nariyal ki barfi,
You are special because you’re made
Not to impress anyone
But simply because eating you
Takes me back to a feeling…
…a feeling called home.


I didn’t even know arhar daal chawal was something that my soul loved eating until someone asked me what meal I’d like if it was the last meal of my life.

I would have thought I’d say something exciting like chicken biryani, or pizza or pasta or hakka noodles – all of which I adore, obviously – but I went with daal chawal. Maybe I’m old and hence nothing can beat a simple meal. Or I have too much of Moradabad (my paternal grandparents hailed from here) in me to not say arhar daal chawal.

So, my friend, reading this very clunky piece of poetry written for something as basic as arhar ki daal, what’s soul food for you?


8 responses to “Papa ki daal”

  1. Tulika Avatar

    Arhar ki daal is indeed soul food. We add red chillies to hing and jeera and that’s where we stop. We also used to have a pot of ghee on the dining table and right before eating we put an additional dollop. That’s such a core memory for me. As a mom I have had to struggle to introduce other dals in our meals because everyone only wants arhar.

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    1. Core memory – I like that word. In my house we have all kinds of daal so we have them on a nice little rotation 😀

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  2. I think, Dals always have a special place in the hearts of Indians

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    1. That’s so true!

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  3. Why do I think I am writing this post? Why does my father, my in-laws, my husband like this daal? Why is it called the comfort food at my home and is made every other day that my kids hate it the most and guess the menu ki aaj phir arhar ki daal bani hai na?

    Of all the years that I have eaten it and now have been making it, I can proudly say that it’s not easy to make. It has to be of the same consistency and a good combination of salt and haldi. And of course, the tadka with heeng jeera and lal ghee separately!

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    1. Hahahaha I’m sure if this daal was made every day, I’d hate it too! But it’s made once a week so by the time it comes back in rotation, I’m missing it 😀 😀 i can smell that chaunk!

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  4. kudos to another piece of writing. Khichdi, dal and dahi is my favourite comfort food. We have dal most days of the week.

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    1. Ooof love that! Thank you 🙂

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