Mind your language

What makes us human? Is it memory? Is it that we have bigger guns? Is it our brain? Maybe it is the fact that we have technology. I have noticed how most of these questions are posed and answered by the SciFi genre. 

In Dawn by Octavia E. Butler, she wrote humans have a need for hierarchy and it is this need that leads to most of our violent tendencies. In Humans, a series on humans and synthetic life forms, a life form poses a remarkable conundrum – why do humans treat us (synthetic life forms) so badly? They do not do this to their gadgets (phones, tablets, computers), then why us? Is it because we look like them? 

Gemma Chan, who is in the blue and behind the three humans is a synthetic life form.
Gemma Chan, who is in the blue and behind the three humans plays a synthetic life form.

Dawn has aliens and Humans has synthetic life forms. Both of them have something that threatens the humansโ€™ position at the top of the food chain. But another show, The 100, has only humans and yet every time they try and work together, some form of violence always breaks out. I mean even though the nuclear plants are melting and viable places where humans can ride out the wave are dwindling, the violence does not cease.

Iโ€™m talking fiction right now but open any news channel, and at least 3 articles out of 5 will be talking about some form of violence that we have inflicted on another person(s). 

Then you have a book like Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir and the movie Arrival and suddenly, the question – what makes us human – may have a less violent answer: language. How we communicate and how we use language or art or even math for that matter to reach outside ourselves and meet someone halfway. 

From the movie Arrival. The black circle is how the aliens are communicating
From the movie Arrival. The black circle is how the aliens are communicating (source)

But it is also interesting that in both these pieces of content, there is only one person who is involved in trying to communicate. So this person has the time and space to figure out the right language.

What makes us want to immediately resort to fisticuffs instead of using our higher intelligence, our language to communicate? Why is it harder to use words and easier to use violence?

Maybe it is because for centuries, our world has run on the prototype of a heterosexual man and maybe in the beginning that definition was wider but the closer you come to 2022, that definition has only narrowed in its scope. Narrowed so much that it has us all by the neck, its teeth sunk into our jugular where letting go would leave us to bleed out and die a rather messy death.

Speaking of death reminds me of another book Riot Baby by Tochi Onyebuchi. Itโ€™s a book on racism and the violence/prejudice that Black people face. It akins society to a diseased body and even flirts with the idea that perhaps the only way to handle such systemic violence is to destroy the world and rebuild. Much like you would amputate a limb to preserve the body.

Cover of Riot Baby by Tochi Onyebuchi

I wonder whose prototype they would use when they make this new world? Perhaps weโ€™ll colour it orange this time, instead of white and think: hey this looks okay. Who cares if it’s built on the ashes and bones of others. At least it’s a different colour.

I wonder if the rainbows and the unicorns and all the โ€œsugar, spice and everything niceโ€ will get a chance. Maybe thatโ€™s what โ€œthe manโ€ is worried about. Colours as opposed to one colour. Languages as opposed to just one โ€œsuperiorโ€ language.

Working togetherโ€ฆhmmmโ€ฆthat right there may be the crux of the problem: we secretly hate each other and have the impulse control of a five year old. Maybe that is what makes us human.


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14 responses to “Mind your language”

  1. I’m currently watching Snowpiercer on Netflix and am facing the same questions that you pose. Even when we’re dying, we want to up-one each other.

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    1. I have seen the movie – I left the show in-between, couldn’t watch it – and the way the segregation of humans happen is barbaric and unfortunately casual.

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  2. guyleneiswriting Avatar
    guyleneiswriting

    This piece was really well written, you are very articulate.
    I think another reason why we still rely so much on violence (verbal and physical one) is that many people are not taught to communicate in an effective way.
    Many parents yell at their children or tell them hurtful things instead of communicating. Many teachers try to teach by humiliating. And so on. In the end, people repeat what they have been taught.

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    1. That is a very interesting observation. And you’re so right – effective communication should be a life skill we teach, much like cooking. Thank you!

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    nostalgicmoments

    A post do apt for the times we live in. I wish people gave more thought to this.
    Ours could have been a better world. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

    Btw, add ‘Clara and the sun’ and ‘Never let me go’ to that wonderful list you got there.
    I haven’t read ‘Riot baby’, so I’m hoping to check that one out.

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    1. Thank you so much! Klara and the sun is on my list and I saw the movie for Never let me go. I remember not liking it but some years later, it clicked and I realised what an incredibly moving tale it was. Hope you enjoy Riot baby.

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    Anagha Yatin

    A post that makes one think is the post well written! With every paragraph of this post, I had myriads of thoughts, all pulling me with their might in their direction. The flow of the post however arrested my peril and kept me focussed till the last period.
    All I could say is if we can somehow remove ‘one upmanship’ from our genes, life would be much better!

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    1. So true Anagha. If we can learn to be happy in our skin, it would be so much better. Thank you for those lovely words on the writing.

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  5. Very well written Suchita. It is said that the natural tendency of humans is, not love, but violence. I was surprised when I read this but going by what I keep seeing I have begun to believe it’s true.

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    1. That’s indeed surprising considering all the greatness we can achieve. Thank you Sonia.

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  6. I just read this post after “Kheer” and it was such a 180-degree turn. This one is hard-hitting, and yet it underscores the fact that our world is getting more divisive by the day. Our diversity is now a threat to people who are hungry for power, and has become a thing to be stamped out

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    1. Our diversity, which used to be a cause of celebration, is now a threat. So true.

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  7. Violence has become a way of life and is supposedly the answer to every problem. What we don’t realise is that violence is, in most cases, the problem itself, and never a solution. Wonderful post, Suchita! Hopefully, one day, we will figure things out. Till then, fingers crossed!

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    1. So true Deepti! And thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

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